gitu saja. Apalagi jika hubungan sudah terjalin cukup lama. Jika mengalami perceraian atau putus cinta, Anda pun harus meluangkan waktu untuk menyembuhkan hati dan melakukan refleksi diri.
Lalu, bagaimana cara mengetahui kalau Anda sudah siap untuk kembali menjalin cinta yang baru? Deanna Lorraine, seorang ahli hubungan dari HerWay.com, mengungkapkan ada empat tanda kalau Anda sudah siap untuk kembali menjalin hubungan asmara.
1. Tak lagi terobsesi masa lalu
Saat Anda tak lagi terobsesi dengan mantan kekasih, ini bisa jadi pertanda kalau luka hati sudah mulai sembuh. Ini ditandai dengan tidak lagi memikirkannya, tidak mencari tahu keadaannya di situs jejaring sosial atau tidak lagi berusaha menghubunginya.
Apalagi jika Anda sudah mulai berpikir "Bagaimana bisa aku sesedih ketika ditinggalkannya". Menurut Lorraine, itu adalah tanda yang sangat jelas.
2. Anda tak lagi marah
Tanda lainnya adalah Anda tak lagi marah padanya. Ini memang butuh waktu lama dan biasanya disertai dengan tidak lagi berharap untuk kembali menjalin hubungan dengannya. Ini pertanda Anda sudah memaafkannya.
Jika ketika Anda mendengar namanya atau melihat fotonya, hanya ada perasaan datar, hal ini menunjukan Anda mulai membaik. Tetapi, jika saat mendengar nama atau melihat dia masih terbersit rasa marah, tandanya Anda membutuhkan waktu untuk menyembuhkan luka hati sebelum menjalin hubungan baru. Jangan sampai ketika memulai hubungan, Anda masih dibayang-bayangi mantan kekasih.
3. Anda mulai melirik pria lainKetika Anda mulai memperhatikan pria lain, ini pertanda Anda mulai membuka diri. Apalagi jika ketika ada yang mendekati dan Anda meresponnya dengan baik. Artinya perasaan Anda sudah tak lagi terperangkap dalam kesedihan akibat putus cinta.
4. Anda merasa nyaman saat sendirian
Saat sendirian biasanya saat paling galau. Anda bisa kembali teringat mantan kekasih lalu terjebak dengan rasa marah dan kecewa. Tetapi jika Anda tak lagi mengalaminya, itu adalah pertanda yang sangat baik. Apalagi jika Anda sudah bisa menikmati kesendirian dengan memikirkan masa depan dan membuat rencana soal kehidupan cinta yang akan datang.
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P L A Y
by Jennifer Lopez
I could wait all night and day to go to a party sit down and wait
Give my request to the DJ 'cause my song he's gotta play
And when I hear that beat, I get my body up out my seat
I grab a guy and move my feet, he's playin my song
Play, Come on play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
Play, Come on Dj play that song
You know that it turns me on
(DJ just play that song)
Just turn it up and turn me on
Dj just play that song
'Cause I wanna be dancin' all night long
Just play my, play my, play my, play my, play my favorite song
I dont care if everybody's gone, turn it up cuz it turns me on
Keep dancin all night long, feels so right that it can't be wrong
I get chills up and down my spine whenever I hear that song of mine
When it stops better press rewind, let me hear it one more time!
Play, Come on play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
Play, Come on Dj play that song
You know that it turns me on
(DJ just play that song)
'Cause I wanna be dancin' all night long
Play, Come on play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
Play, Come on Dj play that song
You know that it turns me on
(DJ just play that song)
'Cause I wanna be dancin' all night long
I just wanna dance, is that a crime?
Alright then
Oh, uh, oh
(Yeah that's the hottness right here)
Play, come on play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
(Play play play)
Play
Common play that song (Now mr. DJ)
Play it all night long (I've ask you three times)
Dj just play that song
Just turn it up and turn me on
(Play my mother ****ing song)
Play
Common dj play that song
You know that it turns me on
Dj just play my song (turn it up, turn it up)
Cause I want to be dancing all night long (turn it up, turn it up)
Play, Come on play that song
Play it all night long
Just turn it up and turn me on
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ONE basically this section is really random. TWO like it's seriously up to you what you want to have here. THREE like maybe a short-term and long-term goals section. FOUR or some pictures maybe?. FIVE or it could be say, the top whatever songs in your ipod/itunes/etc right now. SIX you could also have a wishlist with pictures attached if you like online shopping. SEVEN heh heh. maybe someone will get you something :X EIGHT it could also be a recommendation section? NINE like maybe good movies/songs/places to shop at :D TEN oh this would also work as a sort of announcement section. ELEVEN like any urgent things you want your readers to know. TWELVE or if you're the type, you could put disclaimers here. THIRTEEN or this could be an advertisements section. FOURTEEN like for your friend's blogshop or something? FIFTEEN basically, just be creative and personalize this skin to suit you.
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